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Generation gap between children and parents is always difficult to fill and over,http://www.optionwhy.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=20061.
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What children think of something, so how does it grow? Mom and Dad are crazy.
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At this point, your child may bear family heart is Duzhe gas, "My parents do not understand how little! I then why not listen to them!"
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Perhaps parents are the upper class friends, listen to the child's inner thoughts.
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Has been committed to mental health counseling minors nonprofits Hangzhou Green Wyatt social work service center, will launch the recent public service project called "wisdom of parents," the. Project dedicated to children entering puberty before the "difficult" parents offer advice and help solve the various problems encountered in family education. Also how to get along with their children and battered parents who may wish to tell us your confusion.
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Children saved up pocket money to see a psychiatrist
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Was told is suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder
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Hangzhou 12355 teenagers desk, opened in 2007, has been providing a variety of services, including psychological counseling,talon louboutin pas cher, legal advice, employment recommendation, entrepreneurial support,http://182.92.100.242/qiongyoucms/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1446748, including student applications for teenagers.
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12355 also serves as a reception and adolescent male director of Hangzhou Song Qing Yue social work service center, over the years, over the phone listening to a lot of children that the first trouble.
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Song told a man to let his feelings are deep case.
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The story of the hero is a handsome boy sun,http://kutarr.lib.kochi-tech.ac.jp, read the first two days to find the man when Song. Because the relationship between parents work, the boys from the provinces transferred to Hangzhou, the original score in the class has become a small tail. This pipe under more strict parents, and from school to home, considered quasi 20 minutes away, the boy a little bit late, my mother would ask, pointing to the boy's forehead: "how to come back so late, where to play? "
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"Dad always said I unpromising, how to give birth to a son, I am so useless?" The boy has become increasingly anxious, some strange moves more and more, always wash your hands frequently, bathe more and more time, and parents are not willing to say a word.
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The boy's father and mother did not know is that she saved the boy secretly pocket money, a man went to the hospital to see a psychiatrist, a medical diagnostic told him that he suffered from obsessive-compulsive disorder.
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Song M said that the first meeting, the boy's tears in his eyes. "Teacher, can you talk about it with my mom and dad, do not ever call me, and hear me say a few words."
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Song men later contacted the boy's parents, which is particularly good in itself both parents, after listening to the child's situation, the father ignorant, because the child's strange that he did not notice. "Do not take a child and you compare yourself, give children the opportunity to grow a little bit, to tell the children in their studies and their ratio, parents should encourage and celebrate progress." Song told reporters man.
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Why children are willing to talk to strangers
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Now the children why particularly squeamish
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"The troubles of the present and the closest of the parents said, but they chose to talk to strangers, virtually, in fact, parents send their children into the society, and most of these children are in adolescence." Song told reporters male, This is why the "wisdom parent" objects public projects, especially selected to grade four or five of the "difficult" parent service. "I hope that through early intervention, to parents Weapon, learn to get along with children the proper way, so that children safe and healthy adolescence."
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And children get along, in fact, a lot doorway, in a word may be able to let the children ignore you, the same word can quickly narrow the distance between parents and children.
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Just recently, Song M received a parent's help. "My son suddenly said to me that day, to test a prestigious university in Hong Kong, I say you score so bad,http://fzazi.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=102151, do not even think I did not expect, after this son like a long time and I did not speak."
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"What a great opportunity to enhance understanding of the relationship closer, so missed." Song male sigh, he gave the parents support the move,nike tn pas cher france, "then you should say so then,http://milanjiar.com/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=27746, and ask him what the university wanted to test professional Yeah. That he will talk to you that way, this time we can encourage encourage him, had you done so much homework ah. Finally, you can also ask him, since a target, then we need to do together what efforts the whole family . "
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After listening to the words of men Song, the parents grinning cheek to speak against his son, a copy of the results were pretty good, the parents heard from the mouth of his son many children his ideas, his son returned to his proposed efforts to learn English requirements.
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"And we were young compared to today's children seem to be particularly delicate, not playing can not curse." Song M said it was a number of objective reasons. Child, single-parent families, as well as living conditions improve,nike scarpe, the material conditions of affluence and convenience, will let the children hands-on ability and physical activity weakened, and self-centered consciousness grew stronger.
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Song male representation, each child has its own unique characteristics, must not be rigidly applied to rigid frame children.
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And the child's communication, in fact, is not that complicated. Song man said, remember the simplicity, "a little more than two": more listening, more observation, less nagging.
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What is the "wisdom of the parents' project
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How to apply
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Various Song teacher, then, is not to make you wise for parents to be a sense of longing, Come and participate in the "wisdom of the parents' charity it.
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"Smart Parents" is currently included in the venture philanthropy Hangzhou Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau full funding for needy parents Hangzhou free service. Project invited experts and professional social psychology,http://www.es-project.net/maruyu/joyful2009121/joyful.cgi, social work and other fields of expertise to participate, will offer seven courses, with interest groups, groups for parents grow up the way to solve problems and provide support.
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Currently the project only 50 free places, events will be held in Hangzhou library, want to participate confused parents need to meet their own detailed description in text mode, and contact details to the mailbox qingyuefang@qq.com a concurrent registration, we Screening and telephone notification from.
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Children Zuifan parents say these words, you say it
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A few days ago in a high school lecture time, Song M asked just on the first day of the children, the most hated on what parents say.
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"Do not play computer again! Go homework! Your score is so poor, how others ××× achievement so good!" These three words occupy the top three.
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The Song men also consulted with a secret way to some of the children to the parents to say the truth, the reporter excerpt in part for the parents as a reference.
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Do not compare other people's children
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● people to be content, please do not compare, every child is different,http://www.chrisadamsperfumes.com/index.php?item/create_form/1, and good things are not the same, there please do not go on the achievement of a person.
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● First, do not take me with other people's children ratio. Second,air jordan pas cher, even do anything wrong, do not say very hurtful things.
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Mom and Dad requires empathy
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● You should set an example, to do their work, I come to management. You first read the book, to let me read.
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● you blame me, you can empathy it? Do not know what has happened to casually scolding, beating a bad habit, we can take and learn about each other.
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● I do my best, you do your best yet? I have so much to request, I request you can do a few?
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The desire of parents to understand
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● Do not relied on my dad my mother yelled at me, okay? Do not take those nasty words to threaten me (like you do not listen to get out, I do not raise you like). I am also very tired.
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● Please do not say that you are not the way I imagined children,scarpe uomo hogan, in addition, I am very happy, thank you.
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● Please listen to me finish, you repeat that; let me calm down, you do not continuously saying a word threw me; I'm cool, I would not have the Cold War.
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Require privacy and space
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● be able to give me a little private space, not to turn my things, weekends have enough time to arrange myself.
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● Everyone has their own privacy, do not look at me after the QQ, QQ is personal, not micro-channel, as is public. I know you care about me, but do not in this way.
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● Parents should and we are equal, a friend, and respect our views, as well, the less "Come on," "I was to Hello."
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(Original title: "Dad always said I unpromising" sunshine boy suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder final)